For all the writing I do and have done over the last 40 or so years, I've never had confidence in my abilities.
The same goes for my photography. More than 95 percent of my photos, to me, seem okay, but only just okay. It actually surprises me when someone tells me that my photos are good (and I'm not talking about family and friends, who are always there to cheer me on).
When I submitted my first novel, JT, to publishers, I didn't expect to get so much as an acknowledgement. Of course, I did, from three publishing houses, who all sent me the standard thank you for your submission but we're not interested.
Essentially, you suck. Piss off.
I was genuinely surprised when one of those standard rejection letters was filled with a handwritten message around the margins of the letter, from the person who actually read my novel. I still have that letter, stored somewhere in a box, among other old manuscripts, but I'm too lazy to dig it up to quote directly from it.
Essentially, the person who read my book wrote, "Even though we don't publish this genre of fiction, I enjoyed reading JT. You're a good writer. Don't give up."
Those words kept me going enough to write Songsaengnim: A Korea Diary. And whilst I was working on that novel, I published the rough chapters on a dedicated blog, which now only shares the first chapter. I encouraged readers to comment, providing a now-abandoned e-mail address, and I was touched by how many people reached out to me.One person, who lived in Brazil, told me how she loved the character of Roland Axam, even suggesting how she'd like to see the story end. I'm sorry to say that my plans for the end would probably disappoint her (I never heard from her after her first message).
Another reader told me that she couldn't understand why I was putting up the novel for free, that she'd happily buy the book. I responded, thanking her, and reminding her that I was only sharing the rough draft and that as soon as the first manuscript was completed, I would be taking everything down but the first chapter. If she wanted to read the polished version, she'd have to buy the book.
She did.
Despite the positive feedback that I've received over the years, despite the fact I was able to make a career out of technical writing, I've always lacked self confidence. I've feared rejection. I've questioned my self worth.
Since I've left my job—or rather, was forced into retirement—I've actually felt some confidence. I'm much happier—I actually feel that my job was sucking the life out of me. I feel free to finally be doing something I've wanted to do without my 8-to-4 job getting in the way.
The idea for my new novel came to me much more quickly than anything I've contemplated writing before. I've always wanted to write a crime novel but in the past, I've felt that I wasn't smart enough to write one. Yet, in the space of one weekend—the weekend after learning that my writing department was being eliminated—I worked out the whole synopsis for my book. In just over a week (and at the time of writing this blog post), I've completed almost 50 pages, filled a spreadsheet with more than 20 characters, and have dozens of pages of random notes.
I told DW that I was going to take four or five months off to complete this story and look for a publisher. At the rate I'm going, I could be finished in half that time.
While I'm confident in the story, I still need to build up the confidence to think that someone would want to publish it. But finishing the book is the number-one priority. I'm not going to let any lack in confidence for what comes after the writing to get in the way.
Unlike Songsaengnim, and unlike parts of Gyeosunim, I'm not going to share rough drafts of Dark Water (that's the working title). It's a murder mystery, after all, and I don't want to spill the beans of who dunnit.
I am, however, working on a synopsis that I can share, and I'll do that in the next day or so. I'll also share my thoughts on the writing process, as this is a new genre of writing for me, and I'm approaching it in a completely different way.
Stay tuned.