Friday, April 5, 2019

Return to Tulum

It was like a private joke to her.

Whenever DW and I returned to our resort from an excursion, my wife would visit the resorts tour kiosk and price out the same trip. The agent would describe the adventure and explain the cost, and then DW would thank the agent and say she would think about it.

The tour would always cost at least double of what we had just paid to do it on our own.

We enjoyed the stability of staying in a resort, but we're travellers by nature and wanted the freedom to roam, wherever and whenever we wanted, on our own schedule. And we didn't want to pay extra to do it.

Before we left for Mexico, DW researched several car rental agencies and the reviews by travellers who used the service. The best reviews came from the Avis agency in Tulum. For $10 Canadian a day, we could get a subcompact car with basic liability insurance (which is mandatory for all rental agencies). My credit card offers collision damage and my own car insurance company covers me for rentals, so we saved by not purchasing extra insurance.


We rented a bright red Chevy Beat for three days, picking it up before noon on the Wednesday and returning it at the same time on the following Saturday.

Here's a travel tip: when you pick up a car, make a video recording of your inspection. Include any conversations with the person who takes you around the car, and close up on any marks, dents, or other damage that you find. When you drop off the car, make another recording of the person who inspects the car. Make sure you capture the inspector saying that the car looks good. On your receipt, get them to write that the car is fine and sign it.

(I had a bad experience with a car rental in France. They chased me for more than a year: now, I get physical proof, by video, that the car I rent comes back in as good a shape as I took it.)

We awoke early on Wednesday morning and packed our camera and video gear, and even took our snorkels and fins, just in case. We arrived at the restaurant next to the infinity pool for a full breakfast: custom-made omelettes, bacon, fresh fruit, and coffee. Because our resort comprised four distinct areas, complete with their own lobbies, restaurants, and entertainment centers that were spread out over a large region on both sides of Highway 307, which ran along the Mayan Riviera from Cancun to Xul-Ha, near the Belize border, a series of trolleys ran guests all over the Bahai Principe resort.

DW and I caught a trolley from the infinity pool to the Akumal Lobby (our lobby) and then transferred to another trolley that was headed for the Sian Ka'an Lobby, on the other side of the highway. We asked that driver to let us off at a spot where we could easily walk to the highway, where we intended to catch a collectivo—one of the many shuttle buses that run both locals and tourists from town to town or site to site along the highway.

The process is to wait by the side of the highway and watch for one of these mini buses. As they approach, you can often see major stops painted on half of the windshield. You simply hold out your arm and point a finger: if they have room for you, they'll flash their headlights and pull over.

You tell the driver where you want to go, negotiate a fee, and off you go.

Our collectivo driver saw us before we saw him. We had just made it to the highway, were walking along the on-ramp from the resort, with our backs to oncoming traffic. We wanted to reach the end of the ramp so that a driver would have enough room to pull over and slow down before reaching us. The driver of this collectivo must have seen us, figured our intention, and pulled onto the ramp. We heard a friendly toot of his horn as he rolled up behind us.

He already had five passengers: three people in one row, all snoozing, and a woman holding her toddler son. DW and I took up seats and told the driver we wanted to go to the Tulum Ruins. He nodded and started rolling. DW asked him how much but he just waved a friendly hand.

DW had already researched the price of a shuttle from Akumal to Tulum. It should cost between 30 and 40 pesos for each of us.

The driver made good time, averaging about 20 kph over the posted speed limit. There were no other passengers to pick up and no one got off, so we made no stops in the 20-minute-or-so journey.

The toddler was in his mothers arms and during the whole time, his gaze was fixed on me. I would smile, make faces, turn my head away and then snap it back to look at him. His gaze never changed.

Across the highway from the road that led to the ruins, the driver pulled over and then got out of the vehicle. He came around to our side of the van as we were emerging from the sliding side door. He asked for 100 pesos but when we balked, accepted 80 (even though we had him make change from a 100-peso note).

We carefully walked across the highway and made our way to the admission gate. Along the road, many people offered to sell us tickets or promised to provide tours, but we politely declined. These folks always charge more than what you can arrange at the gate.

This is not the main entrance. Keep walking to the gate.
The cost of admission to the ruins was 50 pesos each, plus they wanted an extra 45 pesos for the privilege of operating photographic and video equipment. Smartphones are free, but if you pull out a big-ass D-SLR and a GoPro, they expect you to have this permit.

DW and I took our time exploring the region on our own. From time to time, if we happened to stop where a tour was being conducted, we'd eavesdrop, but only briefly. Because we had left our resort so early, however, we arrived at Tulum shortly after the gates opened, and so there were few people and fewer guides.


Thirty years ago, the last time I was at Tulum, I was with a tour group. We had booked an excursion with other travellers, and so we were bustled through the archaeological site. I remember feeling rushed. Because the site had been relatively new as a tourist attraction (it opened to tourists in the early 80s), not as many structures had been accessible. Today, the grounds seemed bigger to me, though you can no longer climb any structures (as I had done in 1989).

Today, there is a set of wooden steps that lead down to the beach, just to the south of el Castillo: in 1989, there was no access at this point.

DW walked around the site with our 360 camera, taking in literally everything. I used my D-SLR, moving at a much slower pace. DW could start the video camera and just keep walking, certain that everything was being captured: I, on the other hand, had to stop and compose for everything I wanted.


The 10:00 crowd arrives. Time to go.
By about 10:00, more groups were filling the site and the sun was starting to get hot, but we were done. We had spent about an hour and a half and had avoided the heat and most of the throngs. Any tour group that we would have joined, from our resort, would be arriving just as we were leaving. Our plan was perfect.

Almost.

DW realized that she had forgotten her map of the region at the resort, so we didn't have a clear idea of how to get to the car-rental agency. We had to be there to pick up the car at 11:00.

At the exit to the ruins, a single road ran south, following the coastline. I figured it was heading in the right direction, so suggested we keep walking and look for signs. The town of Tulum was three kilometres away. We each had large bottles of water: what could go wrong?

Several taxis passed us and offered a lift, but we declined. To the right of us was the national park of Tulum, an undisturbed jungle; to our left, a string of hotels and bars. There were no side roads for a couple of kilometres. One man, standing at the side of the road, asked me if I wanted to go snorkeling.

"Not today, thanks," I said, and kept walking.

"When do you want to go?" he persisted.

"Oh, I don't know." I continued on my way but could hear him laughing.

"You know why he's laughing, don't you?" asked DW.

"Why?"

"Because we've got our snorkel packs with us and you told him you don't want to snorkel today."

I had forgotten I had a web bag slung over my shoulder. It was tucked beside my camera bag, out of my way.

The road seemed to go on forever, without end, and we were mindful of the time. I was also slowing down, too: my arthritic right foot was giving me trouble and my left foot, still recovering from surgery, was beginning to complain. We decided that if we didn't see any indication of a turnoff in the next 10 minutes or so, we'd think about hailing a cab.

Five minutes later, a cab tooted its horn, and we said enough's enough. The driver wanted 300 pesos to drive us the rest of the way to town, but we talked him down to 150. The trip took less than five minutes (we were totally ripped off).

We had actually booked the car through Rentalcars.com, so all we had to do was show our reservation number, passport, and drivers license, and we were done. We threw our snorkel equipment, camera bag, and backpack in the trunk, and off we went.

The original plan was to head to a cenote to do some snorkelling, but because we were both tired and hungry from our long walk, we decided to head back to the resort for some lunch and margaritas. The cenote could wait.

The next destination for our vacation: sea turtles. Stay tuned...


Thursday, April 4, 2019

The Post-Vacation Post

Seven nights, two archeological ruins, three cenotes, a half-dozen sea turtles, one stingray, five snorkeling adventures, and countless tropical fish.

And 48 margaritas. (Don't judge me.)

Because DW and I have been together for 30 years and we've always loved to travel, it was no surprise to many that we'd go away to celebrate our upcoming silver anniversary. But what we discovered on our trip to Mexico was that this was our first vacation—alone—in more than 15 years.

Sure, we've done some over-night getaways to Montreal, where the kids either stayed with my parents or (more recently, now that they're older) on their own, but the last time that DW and I were travelling on our own, without kids, was in 2004, when we took a tenth-anniversary getaway to Tuscany.

Back then, our oldest was three years old and our youngest was a few weeks shy of celebrating her first birthday. We missed them terribly and swore that we would return to Italy, five years later, with our two bundles of joy.

In September of 2009, we fulfilled that promise.

Before kids, DW and I would often make last-minute plans and take off: Montreal, New York City, England, Wales, France, Florida. Of course, we packed up and moved to South Korea for a couple of years, but even then we still wanted to travel: Beijing, Hong Kong, Singapore, Malaysia, Thailand, Japan.

When 2019 came around, the family had weird travel plans. I booked a trip back to Korea; DD18 booked a trip to Germany with her best friend; and DD15 is going to Greece with her best friend's family. DW considered going to Cuba with her best friend or possibly to NYC, to participate in the Five Boro Bike Tour.

Last year, DW had gone to the Mayan Riviera with her closest friends from high school, and fell in love with the area. But because that trip was strictly a "girl's retreat," where DW and her friends were together to reaffirm and strengthen their bonds, they limited themselves to their resort.

When DW returned, she wanted to research the area, for when she could return and explore with me. She discovered a bay, in Akumal, where sea turtles come to graze upon the underwater grasses, and she immediately added that spot to her bucket list. She feared that this protected area would soon close to tourists, so she wanted to go sooner, rather than later.

Thus was her decision to book an all-inclusive resort outside of Akumal, on the Mayan Riviera. And because this year marks our silver anniversary, she didn't want to take this trip without me.

We had the greatest trip.

DW did most of the planning, most of the research. For her, that's half the fun. And I agreed to all of her suggestions.

We stayed at the Luxury Bahai Principe Akumal, one of four resorts in this area that run under the Bahai Principe banner, just a few kilometres south of the town of Akumal. We booked the all-inclusive package through Air Transat, which had the added value of offering flights to Cancun, direct from Ottawa. A shuttle bus collected us and took the 90-km trek to our hotel lobby.

It paid to contact the hotel a few weeks ahead of our arrival, to ensure we were provided a room in the adults-only section of the resort. Not travelling with my own kids, I certainly didn't want to hear other people's kids.


When I made the request for this section of the resort, I explained that DW and I were celebrating 25 years of wedded bliss. That was also a good call.

When we arrived at our building, we were pleased to see that we were only three structures away from the adults-only infinity pool, which looked out to the Caribbean Sea. A 24-hour restaurant stood next to the pool, so we had a short walk for breakfast and a stunning sunrise each morning.

When we approached our room, which was an end unit on the top floor, we were greeted with a banner that was stretched across our door, wishing us a Happy Anniversary. In our suite, on a table, sat an anniversary greeting card, a bottle of sparkling wine, and a tiny box of chocolates.


The balcony to our suite looked into a quiet green space and opened to the infinity pool and restaurant. Beyond that, the beach and sea. The green space wasn't designed for people—there were no paths or benches—so this area was even more quiet.


We could hear the crash of waves in the distance but heard almost nothing beyond the occasional song of birds. It was perfect.

Though we were staying at an all-inclusive resort, we had no plans to limit ourselves to this spot. But we didn't want to sign up for excursions through the resort, either. We are, after all, experienced travellers, and we were prepared to venture on our own.

Over the next few days, I'll share our experiences. I still have photos to pull from my camera and we filled our two video cameras. If you're interested, follow our first full day of exploring, starting tomorrow.

Maybe have a margarita at hand as we go along. I know I did.






Tuesday, April 2, 2019

The Party's Over

Even though I wrote this post before I left for Mexico, I know that what I say is at least 90-percent accurate, unless we were hit with a hurricane. Or our rental car was stolen/broken into/wrecked in an accident. Or DW and I came down with a nasty illness.

In the weeks leading up to our trip, DW read scads of travel guides and online reviews, watched countless YouTube videos of every place we planned on visiting or were curious about, and studied both paper and online maps of the region.

By March 26, the day we left Ottawa, I felt as though I had already experienced the Mayan Riviera, except for the warmth and margaritas.

Today, as we prepare to return home, I'm sure we're carrying with us, besides our luggage, many fond memories of the ruins Tulum and Cobá, of snorkelling with myriad sea life, including turtles (after all, this was DW's impetus for arranging this trip), of experiencing fine Mexican cuisine, of relaxing poolside at our all-inclusive resort.

A couple of weeks before our departure, as I was changing after a workout at our local gym, I overheard two senior fellows complaining about the snow we had. One of the men said, "I'm leaving for the Mayan Riviera, next week, to get away from this horrible winter. One week of sun and sand. And when I get back..."

I interrupted him: "... it'll still be winter here."

Both men looked at me, their fantasy crushed.

"It's okay," I said, "I'm going to the same region in two weeks, and when I return, the snow will still be here." Looking to the man who was heading to Mexico, I smiled. "At least we'll have had our little taste of heat and sunshine."

The man nodded, smiled.

DW and I are wrapping up our vacation. We'll be home just after dinnertime. Tomorrow, we return to work and our life will resume to normal. We'll have our memories, which I plan to share over the next week or so.

And then, my thoughts will return to my next trip, in just over one month. This party's over, but the next one is just around the bend.



Monday, April 1, 2019

Still Gone

I had meant to prepare a Where In Ottawa blog post for today, even though I'm still in Mexico and wouldn't be able to monitor the progress of my photo challenge. Unfortunately, in preparing for my trip, I ran out of time.

April Fools!

Just call me the April fool.

Where In Ottawa will return in May.